Being there for the other

When you become involved with another person, the idea of caring for them doesn't usually come to mind. But this is a situation that should be considered. Whenever entering into a serious relationship, this thought should be given. When my wife and I were dating, it was a thought that did not cross my mind. But after I had a serious illness, I realized how wonderful it was to have a person that was by my side to help me through my ordeal. My advice for those entering the dating arena, ask yourself this question if you have been dating for a significant amount of time, "Will I be strong enough to care for this person?" Your answer will dictate the strength of your relationship for the future. It will also help the other person to realize when illness strikes that they have a strong mate.