Friday, November 23, 2012

Prenups in the past

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Recently there have been several high profile affairs and divorces in the media. No one really can explain why a person would be unfaithful.  Could someone explain to us ,why a person would need a "Prenuptial" agreement prior to getting married? Isn't marriage about sharing and building a future together. That is the concept our great-grandparents had when it came to marriage. What has happened, why so many prenuptial agreements? Are you telling that person from the beginning, you do not trust them or that you feel insecure in your relationship? My wife and I discussed this matter as we posted this blog, "What is the real reason behind the Prenuptial"? I have always expressed to my wife, whatever I have, she is entitled to it and much more. And she has expressed the same to me, the same comments. Do we have more than others, in some ways "Yes",and in other ways "No". But we have each other. This is more valuable to us than money,investments or Fortune 500 businesses. We stand by "Till death do us part" and not "Till the judge gives me my half".

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Wednesday, November 7, 2012

Making Up..........

We have several friends that ask the question, "Do you guys ever argue?" I always tell them that we have discussions. Sometimes these discussions become heated, but, we don't get to the point of where we arguing. We always make it a point to listen to the other person's point of view. The discussions may last for a long period of time, but we make every effort  to give each other time to speak their mind and express themselves. In a marriage, it is important that each person has a voice and the opportunity to express themselves, whether you agree or not. We have learned to agree to disagree. Then comes the making up. You can do this part however you choose and without instructions from us. Signed the love birds.